
Okay, so I am slightly ashamed to admit it, but I have been watching the bachelor this season, granted, it is only because me wife is such a fanatic and I only catch the second hour because I watch Chuck from 8-9, but regardless, I have been following the life of Jason Mesnick for the last 8 weeks. And frankly I have gotta say that this guy went from the most beloved bachelor in history to the most despised.
Now first of all we have to come to terms with the fact that the whole idea of the bachelor is a horrible way to meet your wife. Going into a situation with the mindset that one of these women will be my wife is a horrible way to think. Then beyond that dating multiple women at the same time, leading all of them on, breaking hearts along the way just so you can find "true love" is a very skewed view of reality.
We as a society and more specifically as men have lost our way in this world, we think that conquering women for the sake of ourselves is a good thing, we think as long as we are searching for happiness it is okay to leave a path of destruction in our wake. Often times we forget we are dirt, we are made from dirt and dirt is what we will turn into. Manhood needs to be reclaimed, it needs to be redefined and rethought. Manhood isn't conquering women, it isn't self-glorifying or self-gratifying, it isn't pound my fist because i went on three dates last week and haven't called any of them back. I am sick of men thinking they are made of gold when we have come from the mud.
Genesis 3:7 says that we were made from dust, so why do we pump ourselves up to be more than we are.
Men search for honor, and the sooner we realize that honor is serving the least of these then the sooner it is we will recapture real manhood.